Running a business and being a mum really is a juggling act! I’ve spent the day writing social media plans for next month, whilst I’ve got a roast in the oven and washing on the line.
For many years my business was my baby, I put my heart and soul into it. It was my life. But, since I became a mum (and step mum) things have changed. I now have two babies to look after! Most days I manage to do some form of work, but I’m often checking emails whilst building a jigsaw or reading a book to my little girl.
However, despite it being a juggling act I actually get the best of both worlds. I can be at home and have precious time with my daughter, but then run a successful business as well. So, how do I do it…
- Be organised
My biggest tip is being organised. There is no way I could do what I do if I was not super organised. I have lists for each client and what we need to do, plans for social media, plans for advertising, plans for future plans. I then have a weekly list of everything I need to get done that week with priorities, I even then have a notepad, where I write down what I need to do each day. I know it sounds a lot, but when you’re juggling ten or so clients at a time, you need to write everything down and plan everything.
I also then have lists at home, shopping lists and lists of what we’re going to eat each day for tea. I have a work calendar and also a family calendar, so everyone knows what they are doing and when. My little one is only two and a half, so I think this planning is only going to stand me in good stead when she starts school!
- Communicate
It is also really important to communicate well. Not only does it help you to be organised, but it ensures my clients (and family) are happy. I have a rule that I will always answer emails in 24 hours, or even just acknowledge people if I can’t give them an answer right away. I also pick up the phone. We often fire out emails when we’re busy and I’m guilty of that, but if I have something tricky to explain about a piece of work, or if I need a question answering urgently I use the good old telephone to sort things out – an art, which seems to be getting lost these days!
- Support
Probably the key to my success is the support I have from family – particularly my Mam and mother in law. Between us, we share the childcare. If I have an important meeting to attend, I know one of these great women will jump into action, swap shifts and be there to help. April goes to Pre-school in November, so I will have even more time to get things done!
- Give yourself a break
I recently let things get on top of me. I didn’t know whether I was coming or going and felt like I was doing a million and one jobs all the time with no respite. It seemed like I put everyone at the top of the list apart from me! I discovered a book called The Self Care revolution, which is fantastic and really gives you a handle on how to manage things, coping mechanisms, stress and how to ‘give yourself a break’. I think we’re all too hard on ourselves to be perfect at everything whether that is work, motherhood, looks, ageing, weight loss and some times, we just need to take a step back and realise that actually we’re good at what we do. We may not be perfect at everything, but we’re doing our best!
I now make sure I take some time out for me, cinema, spa days and a daily dose of Yoga. Have a read…it could help you too!
- Enjoy it
The biggest thing is that I love my job. I enjoy meeting clients, forming relationships, doing marketing and seeing projects come to fruition. I also love being a Mummy (as most mothers do) and although I say I’m juggling, it’s not really juggling as it’s just life! It’s what I do and I love it. I get the best of both words, being a Mum whilst running a successful business.
If you are thinking of starting your own business and you’re a mum, I’d say go for it. Yes, it will be hard, yes, there will be times when you want to go back to 9-5, but the rewards far outweigh the negatives. There is no looking back!